How to become bigger!

The word for today is bigger!

We all have a natural aptitude to achieve a greater level in our lives.

Some want to be bigger in their  business and reach higher levels.

Others want to be bigger in their personal accomplishments.

The innate desire of every person is to stand out by showing to be bigger and therefore receive the security to be worth something because they can accomplish more than others.

So here you go on the hunt for new ways to improve your performance in order to get noticed for what you do.

The methods, however, are changing and with them changes also the effectiveness of our performance. Have you ever heard of the training courses to adjourn our performance?

Those who look to the greatness in these terms focus on external results and not on the inner preparation that, unlike the external results, does not depend on methods but on a daily commitment to invest in our personal growth.

Focusing on our personal preparation is way more important  of the product itself. Protecting our production capacity is more important than our  final product.

The one who grows inside, grows inevitably outside!

The tree produces good fruit only if it has good roots.

The secret of a steady growth is not in the results but in the roots.

How then shall we start?

Let us look for those things that are good in us, in our behavior, in our character, in our vision and purpose of life and let’s improve them constantly every day.

Even the few good things we did yesterday, let’s make them bigger today, in order to become big one day!

Do not despise the day of small beginnings and victories. If we do it constantly, these victories will  eventually make us BIG one day!

Guy Sottile

A successful Failure

A successful failure!

“I have not failed. I’ve just found 10,000 ways that won’t work.” – Thomas A. Edison

Nobody likes to fail. But if we’re honest, we understand that failure is a part of life. There is no success without some amount of failure. Great inventors like Thomas Edison experience a lot of failures on the way to a successful invention. Even the best baseball players strike out much more often than they hit a home run.

Anyone pursuing a goal of value will make mistakes and wrong decisions. So the key is to expect failure, to prepare for it, to be ready to turn it into a lesson and a stepping-stone to success. There is such a thing as a successful failure. These are some of the traits of such a person:

1.     OPTIMISM. FIND THE BENEFIT IN EVERY BAD EXPERIENCE.

Thomas Edison redefined the failures in his experiments as “10,000 ways that won’t work.” He expected failure and counted it as one of the costs of finding a way that would work. By finding the benefit in the failure, he was able to keep attempting something great. Optimism is not limited to a few people as a personality trait. Optimism is a choice. And while it doesn’t guarantee immediate positive results, it does result in higher motivation and stronger character.

2.     RESPONSIBILITY. CHANGE YOUR RESPONSE TO FAILURE BY ACCEPTING RESPONSIBILITY.

When we fail at something, it’s easy to blame someone or something else. Perhaps the circumstances or the people that we worked with. But failure is a learning opportunity. If I blame someone else, I’m just cheating myself out of that lesson. Responsibility is more important than reputation. And it tends to lead to reward, which can lead to more responsibility. Your willingness to take responsibility marks you as someone who’s mature and can be trusted to learn from the failure and keep trying.

3.     RESILIENCE. SAY GOODBYE TO YESTERDAY.

The ability to move on from failure is key to continuing to attempt great things. The mind can only focus on so much, so if we’re still too focused on what we did wrong, we can’t give all of our attention to attempting to do things right.

Here are five behaviors of people who haven’t gotten over past difficulties:

Comparison. Either measuring your failures against those of others, or convincing yourself that your circumstances were harder than theirs.

Rationalization. Telling yourself and others that you have good reasons for not getting over past hurts and mistakes. Believing that those who encourage you “just don’t understand.”

Isolation. Pulling back and keeping yourself separate from others, either to avoid dealing with the issues, or to continue to feel sorry for yourself.

Regret. Getting stuck lamenting or trying to fix things that cannot be changed.

Bitterness. Feeling like a victim and blaming others for negative outcomes.

4.     INITIATIVE. TAKE ACTION AND FACE YOUR FEAR.

When we make mistakes and then consider trying again, we all feel some measure of fear. Facing the unknown, we easily come up with a list of things to worry about. But the act of worrying doesn’t help us at all in accomplishing our goals. As Corrie ten Boom said, “Worry does not empty tomorrow of its sorrow. It empties today of its strength. Just believing that failure can be good isn’t enough to help us succeed. We need to act on that belief and take a step forward again in pursuit of our dream. Only then do we learn from our mistakes and make progress.

A successful failure is a failure that we respond to correctly: by finding the good, taking responsibility, moving on, and taking action. How do you respond to failure? Which of the above characteristics would you benefit from adopting?